ALL THE DIFFERENCE is National Indie Excellence Winner!

I’m so excited to announce that my second novel, ALL THE DIFFERENCE, is a 2013 National Indie Excellence Award Winner, one of four finalists in the fiction suspense category!

As the Indie Excellence press release notes, “Not only has the number of entrants increased, but the excellence has risen to a whole new level. Advances in technology and the increase in sophistication of self-publishers has produced a bumper crop of books that stand proudly next those published by mainstream houses. This has created a challenge of unexpected magnitude for the contest judges.”

“The National Indie Excellence Awards criteria for recognition are stringent and include overall excellence. This award celebrates the highest achievements in small publishing, a sector of the industry that has grown exponentially in recent years.” Yay!

Here is another reason I’m so excited! ALL THE DIFFERENCE was my first attempt writing suspense, even though I grew up as a huge fan of Jessica Fletcher (Murder She Wrote) and of course, Nancy Drew. I grew up imagining myself alongside these heroines, trying to figure out the mystery as it unfolded. If you’re a fan of those types of stories, I hope you’ll consider giving ALL THE DIFFERENCE a try.

Jessica Fletcher - MURDER SHE WROTE

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Real You: Authors in Bloom Blog Hop! 10 days of prizes, tips and more!

Welcome to my part of the Author’s in Bloom Blog Hop Tour! I am happily giving away a signed copy of my debut novel HERE, HOME, HOPE and a copy of my mystery, ALL THE DIFFERENCE! Leave a comment here and then hop to all the other fabulous authors and discover reading and gardening tips galore! For all the contest rules and details, please visit the Authors in Bloom landing page at www.acozyreaderscorner.com.

And by entering, you’re also be ALSO be eligible for the GRAND PRIZE – a Kindle Fire or Nook (winner’s choice) and a $25 gift card for the same.

Please leave comments on my blog to win! Winners announced on April 19th, 2013 (US and Canada only)!

Here’s a tip: Don’t ever sign up to be part of a blog tour on your moving day. (My apologies for the late post, Diane!)

For a gardening tip: This is the coolest idea, I think! When I got married 23 years ago next month, my bouquet was green and white. Beautiful. Secretly, my mom saved a few clippings from the bouquet before I tossed it, and grew them. In particular, a wonderful spider plant. On our fifth wedding anniversary, my mom gave me the wedding plant. It has now moved 7 times, including across country. Last night, I transplanted the wedding plant into its new pot in our new home. It has been through a lot but hopefully, it will last another 23 years!

Good luck to you if you enter the contest and be sure to visit the landing page for a list of all the other wonderful authors in bloom!

 

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Real You: A moving experience

We all have certain talents – and certain, shall we say, challenges. Well, I’ll readily admit one of my biggest deficits is organization - or lack thereof! So, the fact we’ve moved as a family four times since the fall of 2009 is remarkable. Remarkable that we’ve stuck together and remarkable that I can find anything, anywhere. And, why am I writing about this you ask? We’re moving AGAIN!

So with the impending, looming process I thought I’d take a moment to share the top five things I’ve learned during my last four years of a very moving experience:

Lesson 1: You cannot control anything. You can plan, make checklists, plan some more – but when the big day comes, it arrives with all the mistakes, broken dishes and chipped treasures that are part of being human.

Lesson 2: Moving is a great time for reflection. I have so loved seeing my kids’ artwork, finding favorite notecards and re-reading letters from my grandmothers and great aunts. But, I also learned you can get bogged down in memories and somewhat stuck in the past, especially if you are a sentimental soul. My new found trick: put special treasures in a tub and promise yourself to give yourself time to delve into them again later. And keep that date.

Lesson 3: Let it go. Downsize before you move. I’m not kidding. If you force yourself to giveaway and let go of stuff and junk ahead of time – you know those boxes of stuff that hasn’t been open for years. Trust me. You’ll just keep it in boxes again and move it again.

Lesson 4: Take photos. Really. Of your place now, every room, the way we were. It’s important. You’ll love to look back on it later. Your former space and place.

Lesson 5: Every move has brought us closer together and helped us all focus on what is truly important. Your family. If that’s happy, solid and good – you can go anywhere together. Everything else is added blessing.

If you’re moving anytime soon – I hope these lessons bring you comfort and hope!

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Real You: The power of patience

I’ve joined a meditation class. I was reluctant initially because I didn’t understand that there is an entire methodology behind the practice of meditation. It’s not about chanting, or some other “out there” sort of new age thing, as my youngest assumes. (He’ll learn.) It’s the art of opening and emptying your mind and being still. It’s a place inside yourself free of judgment and full of love, devoid of technology and abounding in possibilities. It’s a hard place to find, but it’s wonderful to learn. To practice. And to practice patience.

 

Oh, and it was good timing when I started the meditation class. My third novel is on submission with my agent and the waiting, this next step of waiting in the publishing process, is enough to drive anybody crazy. (Breathe.) My son is waiting to hear from colleges to discover where he’ll spend the next four years of his life. (Breathe.) Our new home was just about ready for us to move in when it was flooded by a sub-contractor’s misstep. Literally, he stepped on and broke a main water line. (Breathe.)

Whatever is trying your patience today, perhaps you should give meditation a try. The studio that opened in my town is part of a growing wave of meditation studios opening up – and opening minds – nationwide.

“Have patience with all things. But first, have patience with yourself.”
Saint Frances de Sales

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Real You: So about those New Year resolutions . . .

I used to make a resolution, or several, each year New Year. I know many of you do, too. Unfortunately, this is about the time, the end of January, when those resolutions go bust. My theory. Don’t make them and then you can’t break them.

Don’t get me wrong. I’m all about goal setting, and I’m really trying to up my cardio exercise intake this year even with my compete disdain of any type of sweat. But it’s not a New Year’s resolution. Nope. It’s a fitness commitment. Oh, and I’ve joined a meditation group, too, but that’s just something I’ve wanted to try.

Ok, well, maybe there is a link between the new year and trying some new things. I just prefer to give myself the gift of less pressure than a failed resolution. I’m going to try new things this year. Some I’ll stick with; some I won’t. But that’s ok!  

So if you feel like you’ve failed on a New Year’s resolution, take another approach. Think about some things you doing differently and give yourself a pat on the back. You’re turning over a new leaf. It’s exciting so give yourself permission to try new things, no matter what you call change.

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Real You: 10 ways to give to great causes from your heart

Please welcome my guest, author Jill Williamson. Jill has a wonderful take on the some of the most wonderful ways to give gifts this Christmas! Oh, and she’s putting her words where her heart is – read on!

Welcome Jill:

People spend more and give more in the month of December than in any other month. I love seeing how generous people are at this time of year. But there is so much need in the world. Do you ever feel like there’s just no way to give enough? And if money is tight, how can you afford to give to charities when you’re concerned with paying your bills and putting food on the table?

Fret no more! Here are ten ways to give to great causes that are close to your heart and on the other side of the world. And if you have kids or want to do these with a group of friends, that works too.

1. Clean House- Set aside a day to clean house. Go through your clothing, dishes, books, food—everything!—and find items to donate to charity. Get your kids involved by asking them to choose five to ten toys from their rooms too. It will be a great lesson in sacrifice. Ask yourself: When was the last time I wore this/used this? If it was gone, would I really miss it? Then take your donations where they can be used: the local food banks, coats for kids, a charity-owned thrift store, or a local church that ministers to the needy.

2. Clean Up- Set aside an afternoon to clean up the trash in a certain part of town. (If it’s snowy where you live, this might have to wait until spring.) But you (and your family or friends) could also volunteer to clean a community location like a park or a church. If the location has a janitor, see if they’d be willing to give the janitor a paid day off if you did his work. And if you do work out on the roads, be sure to wear bright colors or reflective vests for safety.

3. Sign Up- There are many worthy causes that people are fighting for. Sometimes no blessing is greater than giving your signature. Follow this link (http://donatelife.net/) and click the “Register Now” button to sign up to be an organ donor. You could also sign various petitions for causes. See what causes you can find to join at http://www.change.org/.

4. Click- Did you know that associate links force advertisers to pay a little something, even if you don’t make a purchase? If you have a have a friend that uses Amazon, Barnes & Noble, or other store links on her blog, click through that link before you go shopping on that site, even if you don’t buy the item your friend was advertising. You could be giving her five or ten cents, or several dollars, depending on what you purchase. The same is true for organizations that use associate links.

Here is a site where you can click for worldly causes like hunger, animal rescue, veterans, autism, child health, literacy, and the rainforest. They also have products for sale that donate to these causes. Visit here to click: http://thehungersite.com.

This site works the same as The Hunger Site. Visit http://ripple.org/ to click for water, food, education, or home loans.

And how about playing games to make donations? Free Rice is a lot of fun (http://freerice.com). On this site, you guess the correct definition of words, and each correct answer shows the amount of rice you’ve donated just by playing. I admit, I got hooked and wanted to keep playing!

At http://www.clickforyourcharity.org/ you simply choose which commercial to watch and that company will pay for seven days of clean water. Easy peasy.

If you find a clickable page you love, make it your homepage so you’ll always remember to click each day.

5. Random Acts of Kindness- William James said, “The deepest principle in human nature is the craving to be appreciated.” Some simple ways you can show appreciation are:

-Smile. This is the fastest way to show others you like them.
-Give a compliment. Saying something nice is an easy way to make someone’s day.
-Ask a question. And don’t stop at “How are you?” Questions are a simple way to start a conversation. And people feel good when you’re interested in their life.
-Listen. Everyone likes to be heard, and listening lets a person know you care.
-Offer to help. If you see someone struggling, jump in and lend a hand! Get the door for a stranger. Give up your seat on the bus. Slow down and let a pedestrian pass—even if they’re jaywalking! And don’t honk at them.

Check out the Random Acts of Kindness Foundation for more ideas. http://www.randomactsofkindness.org/

6. Volunteer- Charities always need volunteers–sometimes more so during the holidays. See what organizations in your town could use a helping hand. Some ideas are: soup kitchens, churches, Habitat for Humanity, homeless shelters, lunch buddy programs, your local schools, retirement homes… You could even go Christmas caroling!

7. Pocket Change- Every time you see a bell ringer outside a store, empty your pocket change. Every little bit helps. And ask the bell ringer a question or two, as well. It’s hard work volunteering to stand on your feet all day while people avoid making eye contact with you. Make their day a little brighter by making a donation of pocket change and saying something kind.

8. Hang Out- There are tons of kids, teens, and adults performing this time of year, whether it’s Christmas programs or sporting events. Support someone by attending their event. And be sure to speak to them while you’re there and give them a compliment to show them how much you care. You could also go visit someone who’s in the hospital or a retirement home, take them a treat or a book or movie. Or make plans to have coffee or a meal with an old friend you haven’t seen in a while. Make it a point to bless them with your conversation.

9. Recycle- Do you recycle your soda cans? If so, cash them in and give the money to the charity of your choice, or look for a place to donate them. Our town has several donation boxes for school teams or youth groups.

10. Buy a book (Jill’s shameless plug)- If you like to read, I recently published an enovella (book length: 120 pages) in which 100% of the proceeds go toward the adoption of a little girl from Eastern Europe. My friends need to raise over $40,000 to bring their daughter home, and they have a long way to go.

Sydney-soon to be-Haydon

This is a fun story about a teen guy who has joined a Christian spy organization. I wrote it for teens, but adults enjoy it too. It follows the first book in the series, but you can enjoy it without having read book one. Check it out:

Chokepoint: Mini-Mission 1.5

Ever since I returned from Moscow, life is a full court press. Mission League field agents are everywhere. All the time. Watching. Waiting for me to fulfill a sixty-year-old prophecy. When some baddies try to guy-nap me, the field agents threaten to move me and Grandma Alice to some random hick town, to give us new fake identities until the prophecy is fulfilled.

Not going to happen.

I’ve got one chance to stay in Pilot Point. I have to prove to the agents that I can stay safe. Have to make this work. For basketball. For Kip. For Beth.

So, bring it, baddies. It’s game on.

100% OF THE PROCEEDS FROM THIS ENOVELLA GO TOWARD THE ADOPTION OF LITTLE SYNDEY FROM EASTERN EUROPE. PLEASE, HELP BRING SYDNEY HOME.

How about you? Any other ideas for ways to give that don’t require donating money or buying a gift and wrapping it? Have you tried any of the above ideas? Share in the comment section.

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99 authors, 99 books, 99 cents! Plus, a $500 prize! Today only!

These prices are available on Amazon only.

I’m so happy ALL THE DIFFERENCE is included in this fun selection of books. Happy shopping and don’t miss your chance to win some of the $990 worth of prizes!

For a listing of books offered

and to enter to win, click here!!

 

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Naughty or Nice Holiday Giveaway! Winner Announced!

It’s the most wonderful time of the year! And to celebrate, we’ve asked two of our favorite leading ladies – Kelly from HERE, HOME, HOPE – and Ellen from ALL THE DIFFERENCE – to select prizes they’d love to receive. Ellen, representing the devious women of Grandville, selected some Naughty gifts - Arsenic perfume, a Black Swan Ornament, a Journal to write about her secret lives, a Swarm of Bees candle and more. Kelly, representing the happier women of Grandville, selected an assortment of Nice presents for you including Rosewater perfume, a handblown White swan ornament, a journal to record your good deeds, a pure white soy candle and more. To enter, leave a comment or enter via Rafflecopter here or on my Facebook Author Page!

UPDATE:

WINNER ANNOUNCED!

Emerald Barnes is the winner of the Naughty & Nice Giveaway! Thank you to all of you who entered! More exciting giveaways and events are coming – as soon as tomorrow! And may all of you enjoy the most wonderful time of the year! xoxo

                                                           

 

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Real You: So much to be thankful for, especially you!

It’s that time of year, when we all reflect on our blessings. As an author, finally putting my passion into action and having the career of my dreams, I am sure of one thing – your support makes all the difference. With each book or short story, I’ve been thrilled by the response from long-time friends, and new friends alike. I’m so grateful my novels have resonated with you, and that you are looking forward to the next. Who could ask for anything more?

But there is more. Always. My family. A week ago, my daughter’s college house burned down. She lived there with 8 other girls, and thankfully, none of them were home when the fire started. It moved quickly and the damage was enormous. She lost everything – possessions, clothes, computer, photos – but she is safe. And really, that’s what matters as we all know.

 

Her close-call was a reminder to me, and a lot of folks who saw her story, to check your smoke detectors and hug your kids; to let go of stuff, but to hold onto memories in your heart; and finally, to be so thankful for everyday we have and everyone in it. It can all be over in a moment.

I am so thankful for you. Have the happiest of Thanksgivings.

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Real You: Transitions

Labor Day weekend is such a bitter-sweet time, at least for me. I find myself lamenting the upcoming structures of fall and winter. With the kids’ school and sports and activities schedule back in full swing in less than a week, those sweet sleep-in days of summer will be just a memory.
But, with every seasonal transition comes that time for growth and renewal. It’s also a great time for me to recommit to projects I’ve pushed aside and to reconnect with friends. It’s also – ironically – when my book tour begins for my latest novel, ALL THE DIFFERENCE. And that is exciting! I’ll post the tour soon, but here I come Columbus (September 20th), Cincinnati (September 21st) and Laguna Beach (September 30th).

Transitions are tough sometimes. Make sure you have things to look forward to – like a book tour, or a new project. And, happy September!

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